• http://www.logallot.com/ Sonia

    Great post. I am apart of a secret group and everything you said was spot on. You have to enforce very early and stick to them. Most people get it pretty quick if they are professional and work on supporting others rather than themselves. The group I am in is very supportive, but they encourage people participate and get to one another.

    Another group I joined and left really quick appeared to be more like spam then anything else. They filled up my email box with pointless comments and stupid questions and when you didn’t know something they snapped at you like you were some child. They missed the boat and I was gone. Great tips girl!

    • http://www.sexyfocusedambitious.com/ Lauryn Doll

      Sonia – exactly. A group is meant for sharing, connecting and networking when you do it right. A place to allow people to feel like they’re at a business-focused after work mixer. If I go to a club and get hit with more party invites before I see whether or not I’m interested in the one I’m currently at, then I’m not going to have a fond memory… groups on groups on groups… and several need tact on tact on tact.